Right now, the only thing I have left is Santa Claus. In just one month, my daughter has found out about both the Tooth Fairy & the Easter Bunny. Darn, I thought this would all be later!
Some of our best conversations happen in the car on the way home from her preschool. One day, a classmate had lost a tooth and shared her story about the Tooth Fairy. The Girl asked me to explain the Tooth Fairy to her. I was about to when I made a snap judgement and told her the truth about the Tooth Fairy. I couldn't stand to perpetuate the tale of a magical little fairy that flies into children's bedrooms while they sleep, sneak the tooth from beneath their pillow, and give them a dollar. I didn't want to lie and try to make up the Tooth Fairy's motives for wanting to collect teeth (ew?) She took it surprisingly well, asked if the Tooth Fairy was just the mommy, and then asked if she could still get a dollar for each tooth. Mommy: 1. Tooth Fairy: 0.
On Easter, my sister brought over eggs to hide for our kids. Doing what any mom would do, I stashed them in my room until after dinner. At some point, The Girl went snooping and found the eggs. Very seriously she tapped me and said "Mommy, can I talk to you for a second" Once away from the crowd she asks me, "Mother (ooo, it's serious!), are you the Easter Bunny?" I stood there blankly and she followed up, "I found the eggs" (Wow, asking questions to which she already knows the answer. I'm impressed....and a little shocked.) I sigh and tell her, "Yes, the mommy is the Easter Bunny, too."
"Mommy, you lied, can you hide the eggs so I can find them now?"
It's going to be a long December.
Working single mother navigates her way through the world. One random thought at a time...
Tuesday, April 26, 2011
Friday, April 22, 2011
Things I Will Never Take For Granted
Cuddling with my daughter
Use of my right hand
Spring Flowers
Not having allergies
Having a yard
Living in a decent neighborhood
Fresh picked fruits & veggies
Gift of sight
Starbucks
Being able to run, even short distances, without excruciating pain
Sidewalks
My smartphone
Not being in Libya
The Outer Banks
Good friends
Wild, sustainably caught fish
The wonder or traveling to a new city
Warm weatherLeaving the house with only my purse
Good watermelon
And everything else.....
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